Ive A Dilema (fairly serious for once!)

[CANELOLUJAH]

lol whats up with all you dudes, lmfao so damn effeminate and shit.

He likes her who cares how their relationship is that is none of your buisness. Maybe he likes to be treated that way, you might not like that but maybe he does who know bottom line none of your buisness.

He your friend ask you to be the best man so do it. lol. if you dont do it hes girl is now controlling your ass too.

its so simple, its not even a issue. He gonna marry this chick so believe his feelings for her will ***** any damn opinion you have about their relationship.

[racer59]

Sorry bro, you're phucked on this one. You only have two options:

1. Suck it up. Keep it short and sweet and hope you can **** the bejesus out of a brides maid after.

2. Come up with some excuse and not go to the wedding. But your buddy will never forget this.

If he asked you to be his best man, you must be pretty close. Good manners says you can't say no, unless you actually don't attend the wedding.

[squealpiggy]

lol whats up with all you dudes, lmfao so damn effeminate and shit.

It's a genuine dilemma and I've faced a similar one before. You have to remember that you're not being asked so you can compromise your own feelings, you're being asked because the person asking thinks that you're important to him.

Which is how I ended up a godparent.

[Danny Gunz]

Is he really your best friend?

Then do it. This isn't your moment to make a point about what you think of his wife or parents. Just go to the wedding give a speech, make sure he has a good time at the bachelor party, then enjoy the wedding.

[jaded]

What's even worse is the fact that as the best man you will be expected to hand over a substantial sum of money for the honour and then they'll have a few obnoxious b**** you'll be expected to hand over more. It never ends.

Just tell him you're going to be busy that night.

[JohnnyRebel]

Ok, I've been asked by a friend to be his best man, the wedding is this summer. Now, I dont like his missus, hes been under her thumb for a couple years. He acts like a hyper sensitive p.ussy with her (told him that he just lols).

And I dont really like her, I've watched her manipulate and mould him over the years.



Anyway long story short im asked to be best man, I dont want to be whatsoever but hes my best buddy.... Speech time, 0 issues talking to a crowd (taught before) bit his parents hate me cos of my erm, crude wit.... Now I can tone that down but still they stand there like a pair of overly judgemental faces (*** them).



So I dont like his fiancee, family and he wants his brothers to plan the stag and its s.hit, I'm
not paying to p.iss about Bankok dont care how good it is..
So guys, do you NEVER *** off bein a best man or is there an unwritten rule to never say no?

Im a bit stuck here. I really dont want to know tbh!

What would you do? Your mates parents dislike you, ypu dont like who hes marrying, no say on what happens on the the stag do (as the best man)... how would any of you guys go about it?

If I were you I would do what my mind and heart tell me to do. If you want to go for your buddy do that. If you don't want to go then do that. If I were in your shoes I honestly wouldn't go. If you are going to pretty much be miserable and shelling out your money at the same time it sounds like a terrible thing... fuck the supposed morality of it. Your buddy letting his brother do the bachelor party, his parents hating you, and the fact that you don't like the bride with your buddy knowing this makes me think you don't want to go anyway. I wouldn't come up with some lame excuse either... I'd be straight up and tell him how you really feel. If he really is your best friend he would know how you feel anyway and respect your decision no matter the choice. I be damned if I'd pay for something that makes me extremely uncomfortable in many ways. My best friend would never put me in a situation like this. Bros before hoes lol.

[Showtime..]

I guess I would suck it up and do it, then get piss drunk after.

you meant before*

[Mr Ehrmantraut]

Tell him you think it's best his brother be best man.

[Spray_resistant]

Jab at the end of the day in this scenario this isn't about you and you are not the one getting married so if this friend is of any value to you just do the thing because your opinion about the matter won't change the matter. Being so resistant can only create a conflict between you and your friend, no good will come of it. In any case you will get the chance to get smashed at the wedding and maybe meet some young ladies.

[Tay Roc]

I guess I would suck it up and do it, then get piss drunk after.

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