What do you think?

[SonnyG8R]

Are there any circumstance under which a woman should be smacke by a man?

When I was in Highschool I had a girl rob $300 from me at a party. I was ****** and left it in a drawer in my room but this ***** had no right to go into my bedroom and start searching through my **** looking to rob me. One of my other guests saw her and it led to a confrontation between me and her boyfriend.

Later a bud of mine said he would have smacked her silly if it was him. What do you guys think. Are women always exempt from any kind of physical retribution simply because of their gender?

[AgonYx0]

tito is a *****....

tell us something we dont know.

[nance]

Oh geez! I really feel for you....This is a circle and it is sad...I am glad you are still sane though and unbiased....I knew a girl who her dad used to yell at her mom and beat her up and blame her because he drank....but this girl is not as strong as you because she became a man hater and biased, when that girl cheated on me she never felt bad and she was my supposed best friend she would say maybe you overthink things...it was strange how she would talk to me and one day i talked to her about my problem with the girl and then she started crying and said I was like her father and that really tripped me out!! I have to commend you madcrewmom for staying in their and not hating all men, thanks again for the advice. you trully are the definition of tough!

oh ya and my supposed good friend is 30 and she has never had a boyfriend, and she still talks to those people who done me wrong, I talk to her on occasion but she says mean things like get over it and grow up! When I told her I cant go around their anymore.....what do you think I shyould do I have the feeling to leave her alone and stop talking to her, because she always rubs in how she is still good friends with my enemies. You think she is taking out her vengance on me? I feel so.

I couldn't say Hectari....maybe you should do what I did. Get counseling. I call mine once or twice a week. I'm very lucky that I found a really good one and I think he's seen this coming for a very long time. He's been there for our son's problems and helped him thru them along with us.

I know a lot of men don't believe in counseling, but look at my husband. Maybe if he had gotten it, we'd still be together. At the very least, he wouldn't have been arrested.

And Santino?

[nance]

Are there any circumstance under which a woman should be smacke by a man?

When I was in Highschool I had a girl rob $300 from me at a party. I was ****** and left it in a drawer in my room but this ***** had no right to go into my bedroom and start searching through my **** looking to rob me. One of my other guests saw her and it led to a confrontation between me and her boyfriend.

Later a bud of mine said he would have smacked her silly if it was him. What do you guys think. Are women always exempt from any kind of physical retribution simply because of their gender?

Mixed feelings on this.

I've fought back with my husband but I ALWAYS end up getting hurt worse. I am no match for him physically and since he's also a black belt and trained in Krav ****, there's no hope with my little bit of kickboxing....

There are some women out there that can kick ass.

[jack_the_rippuh]

tell us something we dont know.

Do you even know who Tito is?

[hectari]

I couldn't say Hectari....maybe you should do what I did. Get counseling. I call mine once or twice a week. I'm very lucky that I found a really good one and I think he's seen this coming for a very long time. He's been there for our son's problems and helped him thru them along with us.

I know a lot of men don't believe in counseling, but look at my husband. Maybe if he had gotten it, we'd still be together. At the very least, he wouldn't have been arrested.

And Santino?

sorry to say madcrew but I wont do what you did and get counseling it will just **** me up more. I already see how those guys ****ed you up and made it like it was your fault. All counseling does is make you feel bad to change and I think I know I am right here the girl really needs a counseler.

Cause she made me out to be a monster and cried to her friends, thats why I tend to not take a womans word 100 percent I know alot of these young chaps who are naive and ****** will always try to stick up for the woman but they need to hear the whole story.

Not to be rude but I will kinda stay away from counseling I have been feeling guilty way to much! Not trying to be a victim trying to be a man.

[hectari]

Are there any circumstance under which a woman should be smacke by a man?

When I was in Highschool I had a girl rob $300 from me at a party. I was ****** and left it in a drawer in my room but this ***** had no right to go into my bedroom and start searching through my **** looking to rob me. One of my other guests saw her and it led to a confrontation between me and her boyfriend.

Later a bud of mine said he would have smacked her silly if it was him. What do you guys think. Are women always exempt from any kind of physical retribution simply because of their gender?

I think woman have taken advantage of their power! They play the Wooah is me card all the time!

Havent you noticed if a man cheats on his girl he is the bad guy and people stop talking to him?

But if a girl cheats on her man all she has to do is cry and say she was depressed to her friends and everyone takes her side! and they make the man out to be the bad guy again, like he MADE her cheat!

funny how one cheating is ok over the other!

That is why I hope more men realize that women are not as innocent. They will stab you in the back witht he quickness, I am glad I had a mother who taught me the truth about women at a young age...She even said a woman cannot be a good president because they take personal feelings into account.

[AgonYx0]

Do you even know who Tito is?

oh opps i though he said tino.

[nance]

Hectari,

Reading both of those posts tells me you would benefit from counseling....

I have one that is not a blame layer. That's the kind you need. There are some good ones out there and I went thru several before finding this one. He's the best and all should learn from him. He doesn't lay blame at all. That's what both husband and I liked about him regarding our son. If blame was to be layed anywhere, it should come from within.

Good luck to you.

[hectari]

Hectari,

Reading both of those posts tells me you would benefit from counseling....

I have one that is not a blame layer. That's the kind you need. There are some good ones out there and I went thru several before finding this one. He's the best and all should learn from him. He doesn't lay blame at all. That's what both husband and I liked about him regarding our son. If blame was to be layed anywhere, it should come from within.

Good luck to you.

Thanks for the advice.