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    The Wives Question

    Are wives as bad as many people make them out to be? Your experience please.
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    #2
    They just marry the wrong one or get married to soon before REALLY getting to know her. Or they get tired of ****ing each other definitely a relationship killer. I love being married.

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      #3
      It's not the wives per se, it's marriage in general. Marry the wrong girl and you have problems. Don't get married too soon. If she makes it past the first 3-6 months, that's a good sign. Those first few months are the infatuation stage. Most relationships can't sustain past that. That's when you start to be bothered by little quirks that you ignored in the beginning.

      That's not to say marriage is bad, but when you are married to the same person for 10 or 20+ years, you may find yourself wanting someone/something different. You are around this person every day for hours on end. Do you have any best friends you want to spend this much time with? Make sure she is your best friend and more. Otherwise it won't work.

      This is also why I take issue with those ED ads on television pushing Viagra on middle aged men. Nine times out of ten there is nothing wrong with the man's ****...it's because he's been married to the same piece of ass for 20+ years and she just doesn't turn him on any longer. Especially if she let herself go or has become a lazy lover. That same dude would spring into an erection that could cut glass if he had some young smoke show grinding on his lap.

      Best advice I can offer, make sure whoever you marry is your best friend. Someone whose time you genuinely enjoy when the *** is over. Someone you trust, respect and would take a bullet for them and them for you. Marriage can be the best thing that can happen to you or the worst thing, all depends on the choices you make. Take your time.

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        #4
        Wives are great, so long as you get married because you are in love and it is what you want to do and not because society or her or her parents are pushing you.

        Don't do it because it sounds good or looks good. Don't do it just to "have kids" not out of wedlock.

        There are going to be times when she does stuff to piss you off. You are going to have to make sacrifices and compromises. You will have to share decision making. When you fight, you can't run away like a kid. If you can handle this, you should be fine.

        I suggest living with her 1st for 6 mos-1 year to get a real sense of her habits and how she keeps herself. I found it makes the transition easier once you get married.

        Good luck dude. Best decision I ever made.

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          #5
          i've known some guys who have contemplated suicide while married, i've known other dudes who love marriage but for me, while i was married, it's just the whole ***n thing of being around one person all the time and the co-dependency that comes with it can be a pretty awful cycle.

          and i'm just speaking from my experience here, try to keep it within the bloodline. for me that would encapsulate black and latina ... i went for the middle east and that crap was just too much of a stench i mean stretch

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            #6
            You have to pick the right one. I've been married 35 yrs and it's worked for me.

            But remember, as Chris Rock once said, you've never been in love if you've never thought of murder.

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              #7
              Originally posted by Mooshashi View Post
              You have to pick the right one. I've been married 35 yrs and it's worked for me.

              But remember, as Chris Rock once said, you've never been in love if you've never thought of murder.
              That's kinda f'd up to put that in the public, back when Chris Rock was a superstar. Oddly reminds me of Billy Ray Cyrus' number 1 hit, Achy Breaky Heart. A nice American country song, glorifying murdering your ex's new love interest.

              But okay, Chris Rock is just Chris Rock.

              I've been through a few ups and downs with women, never been married.

              I think that a traditional girl is the way to go. And you gotta respect each other. Pretty basic. That's in addition to the other stuff mentioned by people that know more than me.

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                #8
                Honestly, if she is that bad it is probably on the man. At the very least, you could say he went for the wrong chick.

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                  #9
                  If you got the right one its not bad. Seen plenty of friends get divorced. Been with my wife for 20 years, there is something to be said about good times and bad times.

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by baya View Post
                    i've known some guys who have contemplated suicide while married, i've known other dudes who love marriage but for me, while i was married, it's just the whole ***n thing of being around one person all the time and the co-dependency that comes with it can be a pretty awful cycle.

                    and i'm just speaking from my experience here, try to keep it within the bloodline. for me that would encapsulate black and latina ... i went for the middle east and that crap was just too much of a stench i mean stretch





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