Originally posted by Hendrix
however, that's more of a relationship thing. depends on the individuals' personality too. while communication can definitley improve *** life, some people just can't deal with being told what they "could do" to be better. for example, i was once in a relationship with a guy who would get really upset if i even whispered a suggestion in the heat of the moment - something like go a little higher or to the left or whatever. he didn't want to know what made me feel good. he saw that as an insult and felt he was a good lover and never had any "complaints" before. yet, my husband LOVES when i tell him what to do and we have awesome communication about what makes us feel good and what we like.
so it depends on the individuals.
women are sensitive too and if she isn't good at doing something trying to tell her how she could improve could cause hurt feelings and cause insecurities.
but we're off topic...
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