What are the advantages of being married?

[Beercules]

For the guys on here who are married.


Ever think about a prenuptial?



Anyone divorced here that regrets getting married?



Boredom ?

[#mandownESJR1]

If u marry the right one...like I did been together 10 years, married 6 years its great. Shes my Ying to my yang she don't nag.....its a healthy compromise....example I love football and boxing as long as I do my work I need to be done before the games or fights. She lets me be me drink beers have my friends over. U gotta really know the person u marry if u don't or theirs doubt it won't work

[Spray_resistant]

I am divorced and if you don't want children there is no benefit at all for a man to being married.

Women who want to be married have created a job in their mind with roles they want filled, should you not fit any ideal description for that role you'll get squwaks and a salty attitude.

The whole dynamic really benefits women.

[Beercules]

If u marry the right one...like I did been together 10 years, married 6 years its great. Shes my Ying to my yang she don't nag.....its a healthy compromise....example I love football and boxing as long as I do my work I need to be done before the games or fights. She lets me be me drink beers have my friends over. U gotta really know the person u marry if u don't or theirs doubt it won't work

See, you have a good thing. You can be a guy yet have a wife.


Many women today, aren't like that.

I am divorced and if you don't want children there is no benefit at all for a man to being married.

Women who want to be married have created a job in their mind with roles they want filled, should you not fit any ideal description for that role you'll get squwaks and a salty attitude.

The whole dynamic really benefits women.

I've been in love before but I just don't see how a piece of paper, a ring etc benefits a man.




Lets be honest here.

same sex with one partner ?



Monotonous


Hence relationships having those "lets ****e it up" chapters.

[Spray_resistant]

I've been in love before but I just don't see how a piece of paper, a ring etc benefits a man.




Lets be honest here.

same sex with one partner ?



Monotonous


Hence relationships having those "lets ****e it up" chapters.

No lol this was with a regular woman not a ****** or anything.

It was very tedious, you're expected to do the things you do in your new role, it often ends up not appreciated.

Women tend to invent problems that don't exist anywhere else but in their heads and you end up trying to resolve alot of imaginary problems

I am not really interested in another relationship at this time and wouldn't want to do it again, I value my freedom and autonomy.

[MONGOOSE66]

Many men marry based off “OWNING”. U will NEVER own no woman period. I don’t care how sweet she is. That said, if you find a “best friend” that’s a woman. That’s who u want to marry. She should know EVERYTHING about u before u marry. The good, bad and ugly.
If u feel u can’t show the “other side” of u. Never get married.
Also be aware their are women that are “chameleons”. Everything they do is to make us think they are the one for you. Don’t be ******. Their easy to spot but your “ego” loves them. Get rid of your ego. Their easy to see. You’ll be happy I told u.

[Beercules]

No lol this was with a regular woman not a ****** or anything.

It was very tedious, you're expected to do the things you do in your new role, it often ends up not appreciated.

Women tend to invent problems that don't exist anywhere else but in their heads and you end up trying to resolve alot of imaginary problems

I am not really interested in another relationship at this time and wouldn't want to do it again, I value my freedom and autonomy.

Unfortunately, women move on faster than men. (figure that out )



But wow. You cannot trust females these days.



I'm not interested in relationships either. I don't have the energy.


Once in a while you'll find a nice girl, gets old quick.





Shalom

[Beercules]

Many men marry based off “OWNING”. U will NEVER own no woman period. I don’t care how sweet she is. That said, if you find a “best friend” that’s a woman. That’s who u want to marry. She should know EVERYTHING about u before u marry. The good, bad and ugly.
If u feel u can’t show the “other side” of u. Never get married.
Also be aware their are women that are “chameleons”. Everything they do is to make us think they are the one for you. Don’t be ******. Their easy to spot but your “ego” loves them. Get rid of your ego. Their easy to see. You’ll be happy I told u.

I get you and wise words.



Ill settle for a loyal chick

[Spray_resistant]

Unfortunately, women move on faster than men. (figure that out )

But wow. You cannot trust females these days.

I'm not interested in relationships either. I don't have the energy.

Once in a while you'll find a nice girl, gets old quick.


Shalom

Well, they want resources from men, go on POF or some dating app and you'll see a list of requirements for what you should have for the honor of paying for her to have a night out.

It takes alot of energy, I have been keeping to myself because I know I am not going to put any real effort into a relationship now, I just don't wanna compromise anymore or do things I don't wanna do to keep the peace when I can just have peace alone.

[Beercules]

Well, they want resources from men, go on POF or some dating app and you'll see a list of requirements for what you should have for the honor of paying for her to have a night out.

It takes alot of energy, I have been keeping to myself because I know I am not going to put any real effort into a relationship now, I just don't wanna compromise anymore or do things I don't wanna do to keep the peace when I can just have peace alone.

I don't have the energy.

Women are damaged these days