If a woman baits you into visiting her work (via her friend) and then disses you when you arrive

[automaton89]

The reason I believe that she tried manipulating me is to switch the lights on in my brain. Otherwise I'm just going to a assume a married woman with kids is off limits.

We are like twin souls. Same age, maturity, expressions, charisma..

My gut instinct is that she loves me but can't get out of her situation. She cares a lot what other people think.

I'm going to try and bail out of this situation but I'm not sure I can, once she realizes I let her go completely.

She has freaked out once before and just left her job and gone on vacation because of me (I left the job).

So I dunno. She better make up for all the grief if I do pick her in the end.

[automaton89]

While I have been married for a long time, I have learned a thing or two about women. It sounds like you're a back up plan or one of many facebook friends that she can has for her own reason. What reason is that? Who cares. She obviously has other options at work. You may be being used.

Move on.... or have a conversation with her and ask her where this is leading.

She might just have been bored. And then had enough when feelings start to crop up.

[automaton89]

Broom these thoughts of yours and forget her. I see you have not done that yet.

I am not sure that she has moved on.

[Gideon lock]

Couple of floating rib blows might sort her out they usually love that

[Eff Pandas]

1)only hang with married women at private places. You are fooking them or doing nothing with them is rarely a bad strategy if you go the married women route. Don't "hang out" or visit them at work. Hanging with them at night in public is specific women & their situation dependent. Hanging with them at work is obvious fine, but you both gotta be working at the same place at the same time lol. Lotsa girls, single & married, got "work husbands" who they maybe fooking, maybe the backup plan or maybe legitimately just a friend.

2)a question. Have you fooked this lady or is this just someone you are interested in? Maybe I missed this part being mentioned tho so my bad if so.

[-MEGA-]

Kinda sounds like you were stalking her

[TheProudLunatic]

Does that equal a so called toxic relationship or love hate? She sent her friend in to my work trying to signal to me to visit her at the work place ....

I show up to her work two days later. She lights up .... Looks at me glowingly.. but 30 seconds later does a 180 and throws me out of there...with a lame excuse. She pushes me out of there... I say "see you around" and she pretends to ignore me.

Is this over?

Was she a GF ?
Fuhk buddy ?
Bruh.....