[real talk] STOP Praising Single Mothers

[Citizen Koba]

If you are into women, you will learn the hard way.

Man, I'm 44 and got 2 kids with two different women and a third due in a month (to yet another Ms Koba) - I already did learn the hard way... thing is just cos I made some dumbass choices doesn't mean I assume all women are the same cos I know plenty who ain't.

[Blue Heffner]

That is not it though. It is not a thankless job. It is not even your responsibility as a child to thank your parents, as you never asked them to bring you here. Majority of the time we are accidents--a result of their ***ual gratification. Meaning they were putting themselves first and you and I came into the picture.

The thing is though, most women blame fathers when the kids turn out bad, but take credit if the kids turn into success. This is highly illogical, because you can't lay blame on something that is not present.

One thing that is never talked about is that the fathers were never in home to begin with. These women are having kids by married or already committed men. The reasons they do it is another story, but it is happening at an alarming rate. No one blames the other women for spreading their legs. The last time I checked if a man spreads a woman's leg without her consent it is ****. Woman controls ***, so they need to take the blame for whom they are sleeping with. I see woman fight each other over men who have money, and each try to have a baby by him, so tell me can this one man be in all their homes?

Look at all the celebrity men who have public relationships and women (side chicks) are still sleeping with them and getting pregnant by them, are they going to say the man lied to them and they didn't know(their favorite excuse)? Women are not innocent and very poor decision makers. The biggest mistake a man can ever make with a woman is to think of her as an adult and treat her like one. Do this and you will live to regret it.

[Fists_of_Fury]

Stop sticking your egg plant colored d1ck in every disgusting thing that comes your way. I see lots of these very disgusting women running around with multiple kids and no man in sight and think who the *** are impregnating these things.

Guess who? The slick bruvas are. Then they leave on to the next disgusting pig. You dudes have no governer on who y'all ***. That's why there that epidemic of the black man being raised by a single female.

[megas30]

Man, I'm 44 and got 2 kids with two different women and a third due in a month (to yet another Ms Koba) - I already did learn the hard way... thing is just cos I made some dumbass choices doesn't mean I assume all women are the same cos I know plenty who ain't.

No, you don't know plenty who ain't. Growing up, I learn that seeing a woman and living with her are two different things. Don't you realize the ones you are living with ain't working out, but I bet everything had looked good from the outside, huh? I have lost counts of my affairs with women.

I have dealt with many races and nationalities. In the end, they care little for your feelings unless something is in it for them.
I was that dude that wouldn't have to say a word for a woman to find me attractive. Women with their men would squeeze me their number on the d-low.

Women are hypergamists just waiting for better, bro. Trust me. I am not saying stop dealing with women, I am just saying they are not who they pretend to be.

[TBear]

i scrolled up a bit after my post and saw your sig, thought there was a bug on my screen, i wont lie i was shook

[Citizen Koba]

No, you don't know plenty who ain't. Growing up, I learn that seeing a woman and living with her are two different things. Don't you realize the ones you are living with ain't working out, but I bet everything had looked good from the outside, huh? I have lost counts of my affairs with women.

I have dealt with many races and nationalities. In the end, they care little for your feelings unless something is in it for them.
I was that dude that wouldn't have to say a word for a woman to find me attractive. Women with their men would squeeze me their number on the d-low.

Women are hypergamists just waiting for better, bro. Trust me. I am not saying stop dealing with women, I am just saying they are not who they pretend to be.

I ain't gonna argue with ya man... that's pretty much the advice my old man gave me, too, way back when, and I would probably have saved myself a lot of heartache if I'd been capable of being a little more guarded as a young man. Now though, I'm beyond caring too much - my girl wants to hang around, cool, she wants to go, that's cool too - perhaps your perspectives change though, now mainly I just like having good company and someone to have a laugh with, I ain't trying to own anyone and if it wears thin, so what? Move on.

Still don't make this true though:

'Women are not innocent and very poor decision makers. The biggest mistake a man can ever make with a woman is to think of her as an adult and treat her like one'.

Like you say though, it's a different matter whether you're just fucking someone or whether you actually enjoy spending time with 'em. Could be that it's simply that smarter women who don't like being treated like children simply choose not to spend too much time with you (out of the sack, anyways) Anyway - whatever you got seems to be working for you, man, and I know nothing I can say will convince you different, so let's leave it at that.

You got any kids?

[megas30]

I ain't gonna argue with ya man... that's pretty much the advice my old man gave me, too, way back when, and I would probably have saved myself a lot of heartache if I'd been capable of being a little more guarded as a young man. Now though, I'm beyond caring too much - my girl wants to hang around, cool, she wants to go, that's cool too - perhaps your perspectives change though, now mainly I just like having good company and someone to have a laugh with, I ain't trying to own anyone and if it wears thin, so what? Move on.

Still don't make this true though:

'Women are not innocent and very poor decision makers. The biggest mistake a man can ever make with a woman is to think of her as an adult and treat her like one'.

Like you say though, it's a different matter whether you're just fucking someone or whether you actually enjoy spending time with 'em. Could be that it's simply that smarter women who don't like being treated like children simply choose not to spend too much time with you (out of the sack, anyways) Anyway - whatever you got seems to be working for you, man, and I know nothing I can say will convince you different, so let's leave it at that.

You got any kids?

I have two kids. When I say treat them like kids, I mean to never let them be the decision makers or run the household. Ask for her opinion, but the ultimate decision is yours or else she will make decision in her best interest, not family.

When I say treat her like children, don't expect her to take responsibility for anything as she won't. Therefore, as you said, don't invest your heart too heavily in any relationship with them, they will sense this and manipulate you.

Women don't cling to honor, loyalty, trust, and integrity like men do. These things are foreign to them. No matter how you treat her if she wants to leave she will. So , it is a smart thing you are doing by being you.