I need to have a rant so I am making a thread, thread.

[crillz]

That is exactly what went through my mind. Not making my son and daughter's lives difficult. It's not me she pulls this **** with, it's my mother, but the kid ends up in my house. I have no problem saying no. I work, raise two all by myself, it's hard for me to feel empathic for a woman who sits on the couch all day and has problems getting to the school on time to pick up her child.

I'm going to 'politely' have a word with her today. I'm going to inform her that my house isn't a daycare service and she needs to make arrangements for her child if she can't be arsed to pick her up.

No doubt, and a quick talk with Momma Love wouldn't hurt too, you have to remember that it was her who said yes in the first place and there would be no rant had she not said yes. logic says that if you're the type of person that child's Mother is and you stumble across someone who lets you use them then most likely you're gonna do it again and again and again. people like that do **** like that and actually have the nerve to get mad when you tell them something

That's like on the block how a dude might ask you for a cigarette one day and if you give it to him he's going to ask you each and every single time you see him after that, if you said no that first time he probably wont ask you no more but that first "yes" is all they were looking for. that's a VERY common mentality that a lot of times manifests itself in different ways, like instead of bumming a cigarette every time they see you it might be asking for a dollar or in your case "Here take my kids!" lolz

[Bossy]

No doubt, and a quick talk with Momma Love wouldn't hurt too, you have to remember that it was her who said yes in the first place and there would be no rant had she not said yes. logic says that if you're the type of person that child's Mother is and you stumble across someone who lets you use them then most likely you're gonna do it again and again and again. people like that do **** like that and actually have the nerve to get mad when you tell them something

That's like on the block how a dude might ask you for a cigarette one day and if you give it to him he's going to ask you each and every single time you see him after that, if you said no that first time he probably wont ask you no more but that first "yes" is all they were looking for. that's a VERY common mentality that a lot of times manifests itself in different ways, like instead of bumming a cigarette every time they see you it might be asking for a dollar or in your case "Here take my kids!" lolz

Oh most definitely. I respect my mother, but I told her this ***** is just trying to get free child care. My mother isn't always well, so the fact that she even asks her sends me through the roof.

She plays on my mother's 'loving grandmother' emotions and tells her she has no family, no one to help her, she's all alone, that she'll have to make the little girl miss school if she can't get someone to watch her. My mother feels awful, especially because I have been raising mine alone for 6 years, she says 'if you needed help and I wasn't here I would hope someone would look out for you.' That's all well and good, but there is a difference between help and being a scum-sucking deadbeat neglectful parent. It stresses her out to think this kid is going to miss school etc.

As means as this sounds, I told her, it isn't our problem, if she starts keeping her from school cause she's a lazy ****bag, the school will call social services and do what's best for the kid.

[crillz]

Oh most definitely. I respect my mother, but I told her this ***** is just trying to get free child care. My mother isn't always well, so the fact that she even asks her sends me through the roof.

She plays on my mother's 'loving grandmother' emotions and tells her she has no family, no one to help her, she's all alone, that she'll have to make the little girl miss school if she can't get someone to watch her. My mother feels awful, especially because I have been raising mine alone for 6 years, she says 'if you needed help and I wasn't here I would hope someone would look out for you.' That's all well and good, but there is a difference between help and being a scum-sucking deadbeat neglectful parent. It stresses her out to think this kid is going to miss school etc.

As means as this sounds, I told her, it isn't our problem, if she starts keeping her from school cause she's a lazy ****bag, the school will call social services and do what's best for the kid.

You have a nice Mom, my Mother is the same way. they can always look into the puddle of bad thought's swimming in our heads and hit us with a good one completely derailing the whole course of anger.

in a way she is right though, sometimes it's hard to tell from ones stance what's really going on, for all we know she probably IS going threw some hardships and could use the help. Do you thoroughly know her or at least have some way knowing for sure that she is how you say she is?

[Bossy]

You have a nice Mom, my Mother is the same way. they can always look into the puddle of bad thought's swimming in our heads and hit us with a good one completely derailing the whole course of anger.

in a way she is right though, sometimes it's hard to tell from ones stance what's really going on, for all we know she probably IS going threw some hardships and could use the help. Do you thoroughly know her or at least have some way knowing for sure that she is how you say she is?

Most definitely I do.

She told my mother on the 20th (In Canada there is something called Child tax credit, everyone who has a child and make under 150k a year gets it on the 20th of every month) that she needed to go get blood tests and if she could mind this child for 20 minutes tops. 3 hours later she comes strolling over with bags of clothes from shopping and a bag from the LCBO (liquor store) she pulled out this dress and showed it to me and was like I'm going clubbing this weekend!

[crillz]

Most definitely I do.

She told my mother on the 20th (In Canada there is something called Child tax credit, everyone who has a child and make under 150k a year gets it on the 20th of every month) that she needed to go get blood tests and if she could mind this child for 20 minutes tops. 3 hours later she comes strolling over with bags of clothes from shopping and a bag from the LCBO (liquor store) she pulled out this dress and showed it to me and was like I'm going clubbing this weekend!

wow, those are balls of steel on that he-she, no shame in her game whatsoever, no phony "they took longer than I thought" just straight up "look at me I went shopping"

honestly though you not wrong for saying what you said then, sometimes people jump the gun on others but you didn't and kudos for that because nowadays it's hard to maintain that ability to be fair. she gave you more than enough reason.

I know she felt like **** when you said that to her though

[Oxn]

This is what youre going to do.

You invite her over to your place for some girl talk.

As she goes to the bathroom you slip your car keys in her jacket.
Then when shes leaving you say you cant find your car keys, after hours of searching you accuse her, she WILL deny, and then you say well show me your pockets.

Confidently she will agree, and thats when she discover the keys in her pockets. You call the cops get her arrestted, the kid goes into a foster home and all is well in the world again.

[rorymac]

This is what youre going to do.

You invite her over to your place for some girl talk.

As she goes to the bathroom you slip your car keys in her jacket.
Then when shes leaving you say you cant find your car keys, after hours of searching you accuse her, she WILL deny, and then you say well show me your pockets.

Confidently she will agree, and thats when she discover the keys in her pockets. You call the cops get her arrestted, the kid goes into a foster home and all is well in the world again.

Gotta spread mate

[ernestomcolon]

****, my rant is that im in hell and i wish i could live a happy life

[T.Horton]

****, my rant is that im in hell and i wish i could live a happy life

red k sent.

[D-MiZe]

This is what youre going to do.

You invite her over to your place for some girl talk.

As she goes to the bathroom...

...you quietly follow her in and begin to massage her shoulders from behind as you whisper sweet nothings into her ear. Caressing her breasts as her legs slowly move apart and then, with one swift move, you **** punt her.