Has anyone here ever been a ****-buddy...

[[ DUBBZZ ]]

And if so, how did it end? Does it always end up turning into a relationship or can a girl really "just have ***" with a dude without getting all attached. Thoughts? Personal experiences?

[KingDosia]

The guy has to have the balls to explain. (sometimes multiple times) that it's just a physical thing. But, usually they just fade. A lot of times the "buddy" part of the **** buddy friendship has to fade with the **** part as well. That can be a loss sometimes if it's a cool female, but thats where you have to have balls and dig in with the "casual relationship" or try to have a monogamous one. You have to be realistic of where you want it to go. BTW, there will be another dude somewhere along the line. If nothing else she will find one just to see if you get jealous. You have to be cool with that or you will send mixed messages and create a problem for yourself.

[N!GGALAS CAGE]

That's how people fall in love.

At least in my case. Girls like my dashing Nicolas Cage looks and chiseled Stallone-like body.

But once they get a taste of my big ass meat, they fall in love.

Either I'm a pimp, or need to find girls with morals and values, not just sluts who want to get impaled by N!ggalas' ****alas, ya dig.

I like nice sweet girls, but they can't handle a big thug **** like mine.

[[ DUBBZZ ]]

The guy has to have the balls to explain. (sometimes multiple times) that it's just a physical thing. But, usually they just fade. A lot of times the "buddy" part of the **** buddy friendship has to fade with the **** part as well. That can be a loss sometimes if it's a cool female, but thats where you have to have balls and dig in with the "casual relationship" or try to have a monogamous one. You have to be realistic of where you want it to go. BTW, there will be another dude somewhere along the line. If nothing else she will find one just to see if you get jealous. You have to be cool with that or you will send mixed messages and create a problem for yourself.

Ok, what if SHE's the one who insisted this is just gonna be a **** buddy situation? I aint tryin to make this more than what it is but I just wanna know what to look for in case she gets any ideas. I been with girls before who claim they just wanna ****, next thing I know, all their ***** is at my house!

[Boxingtech718v2]

I've been there before and unless you set a time limit to cut it off, then thins usually end up getting complicated. The longer you are shagging the greater chance of feelings coming into play. That's just human nature and nobody is immune. If you guys chill outside the bedroom then it's not a booty call. If you pay for eats, then it's not a booty call. If you observe birthdays and holidays then it's not a booty call. You sir have been had.

[LeG00N]

I don't have a female friend I havent ***ed...

they cheat on their bfs with me.

over the years it's been dozens

they don't seem to like me enough to actually be with me though

[Muammar Gaddafi]

The guy has to have the balls to explain. (sometimes multiple times) that it's just a physical thing. But, usually they just fade. A lot of times the "buddy" part of the **** buddy friendship has to fade with the **** part as well. That can be a loss sometimes if it's a cool female, but thats where you have to have balls and dig in with the "casual relationship" or try to have a monogamous one. You have to be realistic of where you want it to go. BTW, there will be another dude somewhere along the line. If nothing else she will find one just to see if you get jealous. You have to be cool with that or you will send mixed messages and create a problem for yourself.

Man i thought you was somewhere ****d and dead!

[Muammar Gaddafi]

This thread is gay.

[sweetpea87]

Once and it was with my ex girlfriend. I guess it wasn't so much a straight **** buddy because we only got together once every couple of months, but every time she called me it was for that. It ended fine because it didn't work out with us dating before anyways so it was kind of perfect actually. She eventually got into another relationship after that though and we haven't talked since then.

[SirTomJones]

Once and it was with my ex girlfriend. I guess it wasn't so much a straight **** buddy because we only got together once every couple of months, but every time she called me it was for that. It ended fine because it didn't work out with us dating before anyways so it was kind of perfect actually. She eventually got into another relationship after that though and we haven't talked since then.

I'm doing this right now.

Neither of us got in another relationship yet tho.