So I was called a racist the other day

[La Zorrita]

should have said "So you gonna leave with that MINGGA(black) dude home or y'all going to an after party?".e

[120]

meh, some people are just idiots and like to be victimized...Now on the real side; why did u say BLACK dude? Couldn't you just have simply said dude or that guy or something like that?

[BetterCallSaul]

Couldn't you just have said that dude in the xxl white tee and the Nike air max?

[J-H]

Couldn't you just have said that dude in the xxl white tee and the Nike air max?

Exactly. He could have just said that guy with the gold grill, silver mall bought chain, baggy jeans, and bad grammar.

No need to get racist.

[dj Ramos]

Well I was at the bar the other day drinking it up. The bar was about to close and I saw some lady I know, who had been with some guy all night. I started talking to her and what not, when I made the comment to her "So you gonna leave with that black dude home or y'all going to an after party?". That's all I said and dude started flipping out, calling me a racist and trying to engage into a fight and that I had no right to say "black dude". He had to be taken out of the bar and I tried telling him I didn't mean anything with that comment but the guy wasn't having it. I'm Mexican by the way, and I'm by no means racist at all and wouldn't have cared if somebody said "that Mexican dude". I don't wanna say the typical "I'm not racist I got black friends, ect.", but being called racist bothered me. Did y'all think I was out of line?

Are you sure your not racist? Do you own Rosh Hour 1, 2, and 3 on DVD?

[Prince Boateng]

Are you sure your not racist? Do you own Rosh Hour 1, 2, and 3 on DVD?

Time to give dat joke up bro......

[BetterCallSaul]

Exactly. He could have just said that guy with the gold grill, silver mall bought chain, baggy jeans, and bad grammar.

No need to get racist.

Or to cut it short, the guy drinking the Hennessy and Kool Aid mix.

[-Spinal-]

I wouldn't refer to a black man as a "black dude" because that is not the proper way of saying it. Using an example of "I would not be bothered to be called a Mexican dude" it's not the same as being called a black dude, what would compare to being called a Mexican dude is an "American dude", him saying "Are you leaving with that Hispanic dude or coming with us to the after party" would equal to what you said. Also you should factor in the tone you said it in. Maybe he felt you were trying tell the girl to "forget about the black dude and come with us!".

some times your tone of voice and wording may trigger people to misinterpret you.

Anyway, "black dude" I can't picture me saying that. That's very unproper, unless i'm looking to piss of some black guy.

[Mr Herbert]

I wouldn't refer to a black man as a "black dude" because that is not the proper way of saying it. Using an example of "I would not be bothered to be called a Mexican dude" it's not the same as being called a black dude, what would compare to being called a Mexican dude is an "American dude", him saying "Are you leaving with that Hispanic dude or coming with us to the after party" would equal to what you said. Also you should factor in the tone you said it in. Maybe he felt you were trying tell the girl to "forget about the black dude and come with us!".

some times your tone of voice and wording may trigger people to misinterpret you.

Anyway, "black dude" I can't picture me saying that. That's very unproper, unless i'm looking to piss of some black guy.

Black-dude used to be my safe word.

[_original_]

meh, some people are just idiots and like to be victimized...Now on the real side; why did u say BLACK dude? Couldn't you just have simply said dude or that guy or something like that?

Just too drunk and a horrible choice of words.

Lesson learned.