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Originally posted by *~*MalVada*~* View Postbahahahha...
although that is such a sweet sentiment and you'd hope most people feel that way.. they don't.. I for one don't, I mean I love my husband but for me *** and love really don't equal. I mean I don't have *** with him cause I love him, I have *** with him cause uhm it feels good, now I cook, clean, take care of him cause I love him. That's just how I see it
I did try to give you good k though..but I couldn't
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Originally posted by cuauhtemoc1496 View PostReqal speak right there, don't worry to Tunney everything is a consiparcy and he lives in a world where we should all hold hands and sing kumbaya.
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Originally posted by *~*MalVada*~* View Postthe problem with most women and why they get stuck in relationships they don't need to be in is.. cause they associate *** with love. Most men don't think I'm having *** with you cause I love you, they are thinking I'm having *** with you cause my **** is hard and I gotta stick it somewhere might as well be you lol I tend to have that sentiment..I'm having *** with you cause I'm attracted to you, not cause I'm in love with you.
I don't think it's a bad thing, I just think it's the way it is.
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Originally posted by cuauhtemoc1496 View PostWell it's also called genetics and the way men and women are programed. We are biologically created differently emotionally. I know a lot of of it has to do with the way society is, but even without the influence of society, I think women are more emotional that way.
I don't think it's a bad thing, I just think it's the way it is.
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Originally posted by *~*MalVada*~* View Postyea we are emotional but it has to do some with how you are raised..I mean I don't always think like a typical woman (ie this situation) I was raised by my dad and 2 brothers..so all I had was male influence. One of the main reasons I stay around here, it's not attention I'm just more comfortable hanging out with guys.
I see what you are saying and there are women who don't think this way but it's few and far between. I did the "no strings attached" thing with a woman and she ended up stalking me after she told me she would not catch any feelings for me whatsoever. Once the *** went in though, **** changed drastically....
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Originally posted by cuauhtemoc1496 View PostI understand that but biologically, the body doesn't lie. Women have 10X the hormonal influx that men have, especially in that time of the month. Also when going through puberty, males are trying to get laid, while women are crying their eyes out about everything, it's genetics.
I see what you are saying and there are women who don't think this way but it's few and far between. I did the "no strings attached" thing with a woman and she ended up stalking me after she told me she would not catch any feelings for me whatsoever. Once the *** went in though, **** changed drastically....
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Originally posted by *~*MalVada*~* View Postit's hard not to catch feelings if you are being intimate all the time.. it has to be totally just ***... no spooning..no phone calls.. etc.. I've had guys I did that with and they ended up catching feelings as well..I've had to put a stop to them. I mean one of them it was my fault because I saw the signs before I did anything he was talking about future outtings.. we only had *** one time.. but he's been talking about it for over a year
You can even say I was a bit of a misogynist to be real with you. There was a time for me that women were just a piece of meat, there to *** and then whatever. As soon as I busted a nut, I wanted to get out of there so bad it wasn't funny.
I never thought I would meet someone as strong as my wife and someone I would respect like I do her.
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Originally posted by cuauhtemoc1496 View PostYea, I mean there are exceptions to the rule. I'm just saying that I have never mixed *** with feelings. If anything, it kind of messed me up with my wife because I respected her in a way I never respected anyone before.
You can even say I was a bit of a misogynist to be real with you. There was a time for me that women were just a piece of meat, there to *** and then whatever. As soon as I busted a nut, I wanted to get out of there so bad it wasn't funny.
I never thought I would meet someone as strong as my wife and someone I would respect like I do her.
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Originally posted by *~*MalVada*~* View PostI know the exact sentiment.... that's nice that you feel that way about your wife
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