If a woman baits you into visiting her work (via her friend) and then disses you when you arrive

[automaton89]

Does that equal a so called toxic relationship or love hate? She sent her friend in to my work trying to signal to me to visit her at the work place ....

I show up to her work two days later. She lights up .... Looks at me glowingly.. but 30 seconds later does a 180 and throws me out of there...with a lame excuse. She pushes me out of there... I say "see you around" and she pretends to ignore me.

Is this over?

[Spray_resistant]

Its silly games and the best thing to do is nothing, she expects you to respond text her want more of her time just because attention is like food to women and they want the guy whos attention is hard to get.

Things get easier, I presume you're much younger than me. 40 year old women know the game is just about over so they're more agreeable for what they see as a suitable male partner and badly need your commitment.

[automaton89]

Its silly games and the best thing to do is nothing, she expects you to respond text her want more of her time just because attention is like food to women and they want the guy whos attention is hard to get.

Things get easier, I presume you're much younger than me. 40 year old women know the game is just about over so they're more agreeable for what they see as a suitable male partner and badly need your commitment.

34... She's unhappily married. And has two small kids. She's been jealous at work (we were former colleagues). Her husband is completely out of THE radar. She basically just lives with him. Seems like a Nice Guy but it's over between them.

Is it possible that she resents the fact that she met me and that it creates a confliction inside of her? Bitter about me showing what could have been?

I actually love her but she shuts down. Oh well...

[Spray_resistant]

34... She's unhappily married. And has two small kids. She's been jealous at work (we were former colleagues). Her husband is completely out of THE radar. She basically just lives with him. Seems like a Nice Guy but it's over between them.

Is it possible that she resents the fact that she met me and that it creates a confliction inside of her? Bitter about me showing what could have been?

I actually love her but she shuts down. Oh well...

You can never know what women feel and what they might do with those feelings, its hard to gameplan them, I gave that up, they don't make sense and don't have to.

Right now, do nothing, nothing makes women less attracted to you than if they feel you need them and they can control your actions.

Let her come to you and if she doesn't accept it.

[automaton89]

You can never know what women feel and what they might do with those feelings, its hard to gameplan them, I gave that up, they don't make sense and don't have to.

Right now, do nothing, nothing makes women less attracted to you than if they feel you need them and they can control your actions.

Let her come to you and if she doesn't accept it.

It's been two months .She deleted her Facebook a month Ago. Could she do that because of divorce and remove evidence in a custody battle? Or is she seeking attention?

Her instagram is still there but inactive since June last year,

[Spray_resistant]

It's been two months .She deleted her Facebook a month Ago. Could she do that because of divorce and remove evidence in a custody battle? Or is she seeking attention?

Her instagram is still there but inactive since June last year,

Then its over, she doesn't want to talk to you. Wimmin can't stand to be out of contact with a man they really want.

[automaton89]

Then its over, she doesn't want to talk to you. Wimmin can't stand to be out of contact with a man they really want.

I detected disguised anger in her voice. It's a long story but I looked for a job at her girlfriends place without telling her and she f me over...

HEr girlfriend was going to hire me ntil she told her... Leading to My flame shutting down all communication between us.... I finally got a No after several weeks.

[Spray_resistant]

I detected disguised anger in her voice. It's a long story but I looked for a job at her girlfriends place without telling her and she f me over...

HEr girlfriend was going to hire me ntil she told her... Leading to My flame shutting down om all communication between us.... I finally got a No after several weeks.

Shutting down is never a good sign and going no contact, its never good when they're throwing a fit but when they do at least you know they care enough to want something from you.

[automaton89]

Shutting down is never a good sign and going no contact, its never good when they're throwing a fit but when they do at least you know they care enough to want something from you.

She shut down her girlfriend from communicating with me via email. Very possessive.

I did not know it was her girlfriend when I went in there.

but what really made her sad, I think, is that I removed My friend request on Facebook... Which she had avoided for 6 months


I think she avoided friending me because her husband would see it... She had like 400 Friends...

And now she deleted her own Facebook .

[automaton89]

So basically I let go of her by removing My friend request. And that made her freak out.

I dreamed two days later of her crying. So she found out.... But I did it for her sake.