Nothing wrong with that, I am In the same boat. I am 40 and my daughter Is 20. The nice thing Is that when the kids become adults you will still be young enough to do whatever you want to do with them. You are welcome and don't ever let anyone on this board or anywhere else downplay the fact that you are actually In a boxing gym doing the best that you can do. For some reason when you said In your post that "I'm nothing special", It affected me and It showed me that you are a humble decent person and those kind of people are hard to find today.