Broke up with my girfriend today.... FEEL LIKE SHYT!

[EdWins]

damn 4 years?

Me and my girl of 2 years broke up in April (on April fools day...) and that was really difficult so I can only imagine a 4 year break up damn..

The best way to get over this is to only remember the flaws man. Whenever she pops in your mind, and she will pop in your mind a lot pretty much everysingle day, just remember why you broke up with her in the first place, DO NOT remember the good times, the smiles, the laughter, the ***, etc. that will just torture you. Just remember her flaws and what drove you to end it in the first place, and also distract yourself.

After my break up I had my ear phones in all day, blasting music from the moment I woke up to the moment I went to sleep, only time I wasn't listening to music was when I was at work, but as soon as I hopped in my ride at the end of the day, music was blasting in my trunk. And it helped me out a lot.

[Psylence83]

Beerculees beat me to it....
But all that aside did you think about this properly? Normally when you get down on a relationship and consider breaking up you think of all the reasons that you should break up....sub conscious bull****.

Your 32 she's 24
Been together 4 years.

I assume she is quiet mature? If someone mature talks marriage it is completely different to a fu@ktard 24yo talking marriage.

When you been with a girl for about 2 years it is completely natural....( and even more natural given your age) to question the relationship and life. IS THIS ALL MY LIFE IS GONNA BE??? Something like that bro? She mentions marriage and the first thing you think is..." IM FU@KED FOREVER NOW " ???
Perfectly normal for a dude.

Me and my mrs had a hard time at about 2.5 yr mark and decided to break up. Was hard as. But pretty much the week I thought **** it single life and partying for me.... Found out she was pregnant.
I thought I was ****ed to bro.
We're still together today with 2 little girls and I'm the happiest prick around. Wouldn't change a thing!!!


All in all I hope you thought about it. The smallest of decisions can change the rest of our lives!

Peace bro and keep us updated!!!

[New England]

find a loose one to bring home and wear out.

[-jose-]

Long story short, I've been seeing this girl for 4 years, shes 24 and im 32. She was hot, loved being with her. However things fizzled out in time, she was just too needy and clingy for me. She was already talking about marriage and kids.

However, I felt different. I liked her but didnt love her. So we broke today.



Mannnnnn.... I feel like shyt though. Now im having second thoughts.... I dont wanna be alone for the rest my life.

so your old ass broke up with a girl younger than you that is hot, was always sweating you, wanted to marry you and have kids...what a slut!


you got scared and pulled the emergency brake and spun out

dumb ass

[TBear]

[-jose-]

I'll throw in another one for the Mix Tape he's gonna end up making for her

[TBear]

I'll throw in another one for the Mix Tape he's gonna end up making for her

Glad we could help

[Dirk Diggler UK]

well, you did the right thing by breaking up with her.


four years is a long time for you to just be beating on it without thinking of the future. women are people, too, and they have very different ideas of what their lives should look like.



i have a two month rule myself. if i'm just using this girl for ***, then i end it within two months. usually the relationships end organically around that time anyway, once she figures out the deal.

This is how I envisage most of your relationships....

[Drunken Cat]

I just got out of a very long term and very unhealthy relationship.

I didn't even see or talk to the girl for 5 months.

Then we were stuck back together like glued.

I pissed her off unforgivably by hanging out with some girls who she is jealous of because she thinks they're better than her.

In all the time I've been with her, I can do no wrong in her eyes, that even includes **********s. But, running with girls she's jealous of is unforgivable.

It's a good thing. I've broken up with her so many times. I could never get her off me. There's always that moment of weakness when you are drunk and just want to get laid, and there's a girl waiting for you.

Even after I didn't call her for 5 months, I went out hunting for girls for about three or four days, came up empty, and called her drunk at 9am, and 15 minutes later we met up.

I'm on to better things now. She was a cancerous tumor.

[Drunken Cat]

well, you did the right thing by breaking up with her.


four years is a long time for you to just be beating on it without thinking of the future. women are people, too, and they have very different ideas of what their lives should look like.



i have a two month rule myself. if i'm just using this girl for ***, then i end it within two months. usually the relationships end organically around that time anyway, once she figures out the deal.

That's not a bad policy.

That said, the last few girls I've been with (excluding the one (or two)), I was lucky to have it go more than one night.

I had one girl that I got to get with twice.