So she flaked, now what?

[Garo]

Seriously, what the fck is wrong with girls these days? I used to get really pissed off about this because I felt like my time was being wasted but I've been flaked on so many damn times, these days I just assume that's what's gonna happen before I even make plans with someone. It doesn't really bother me much anymore and I've learned to move on, but this girl has interested me more than usual.

Here's the background. I met her a few weeks ago, she was friends with some girl my friend is/was talking to. We hit it off pretty well and I was making out with her by the end of the night. We were supposed to meet up the week after at some event that we both wanted to go to, but she ended up not coming. So anyway, we planned to hang out last Saturday and on Saturday i called her an hour before, and even texted her but she never responded and was a straight up no show. I was kinda mad bc I had to say no to another girl who wanted to kick it that night so now I was stuck home with just my diick in my hand.

Anyway, she texted me this morning and I just ignored it, but like I said before, I'm a bit more interested in this girl so should I give her another chance? What are your thoughts guys? And if you think I should, do you think that I should wait for her to hit me up again, even though I ignored her today?

[WARQUEZ]

She's one of them. She's feeding her own ego.

Act uninterested, she'll eventually come to you, fuck her, then leave.

She's not relationship material.

[Cloud]

Ask Boss Lady.

She's a girl.

In all seriousness...I personally would give her a shot just to see how things go. If she did it again, I'd fuck her off.

[rorymac]

She's one of them. She's feeding her own ego.

Act uninterested, she'll eventually come to you, fuck her, then leave.

She's not relationship material.

I agree with this wealthy chap. She's trying to show you that she has some control. Ignore her, see if she starts acting more needy/desperate.

[TBear]

Hear her explanation, if it's good enough for you, give her one chance. But no more.

Or just move on, it doesn't sound like a good start to me at all but if you think she's worth it give her another try.

[Garo]

Hear her explanation, if it's good enough for you, give her one chance. But no more.

Or just move on, it doesn't sound like a good start to me at all but if you think she's worth it give her another try.

Okay so she texted me this morning and all she said was "hey" but I was expecting "sorry" to be the first thing I read. So since I have such a low tolerance for flakes, I decided to ignore her, but now I'm wondering if I should have responded to her text.

So should I wait for her to text me again and see if she'll apologize unprompted? Or should I be the one to text her back since I chose to ignore her today?

[TBear]

Okay so she texted me this morning and all she said was "hey" but I was expecting "sorry" to be the first thing I read. So since I have such a low tolerance for flakes, I decided to ignore her, but now I'm wondering if I should have responded to her text.

So should I wait for her to text me again and see if she'll apologize unprompted? Or should I be the one to text her back since I chose to ignore her today?

This is tough to give advise on because when I was single I probably would have blown her off. But like I said if you really think she's worth it, respond to the text. Tell her you were busy and couldn't get back to her. See if she'll apologize unprompted and make her do the pursuit. I would think if she says she wants to see you ok, but if she just wants to make small talk, ask her about the other day. Then decide if it is even worth your time. I never thought any one should invest much in the begining, that time is to have fun.

[Money_May]

Okay so she texted me this morning and all she said was "hey" but I was expecting "sorry" to be the first thing I read. So since I have such a low tolerance for flakes, I decided to ignore her, but now I'm wondering if I should have responded to her text.

So should I wait for her to text me again and see if she'll apologize unprompted? Or should I be the one to text her back since I chose to ignore her today?

Wait let her come to you again. You don't want her to think she can click her fingers and your there. Once that happens you got no chance. Just wait it off if she comes back then give it a go but always be in the boss chair

[Garo]

Wait let her come to you again. You don't want her to think she can click her fingers and your there. Once that happens you got no chance. Just wait it off if she comes back then give it a go but always be in the boss chair

Yeah I think you're right. If she really wants to hang out she should make a second attempt to contact me, especially since she stood me up with no warning.

[Money_May]

Yeah I think you're right. If she really wants to hang out she should make a second attempt to contact me, especially since she stood me up with no warning.

Trust me bro best way to go about it. Girls like a challenge don't be so easy.